Well I gave up back then, but this week I figured I'd give it some more tries, I tried an even slower burn at 4x and I took out a DVD drive from another computer (something I didnt want to do before, cuz my computers are in cabinets) that didnt work, I tried to get 2000 on the machine and it didnt take it no matter if it was NTFS or FAT
I got the latest bios drivers on HP's site (suprised they were there, its under the XP stuff for this computer) and followed the steps and it didnt work
I then was looking around HP's site and saw a "chat with support" link, I figured what the heck I'll see if they let me talk about a computer i bought in early 2000, sure enough they did (although i dont like to admit talking to tech support

) i gave him the run down of everything I've tried to do to get Win 2000 installed, Win2000 was getting installed all the way except it would never get to the desktop, it would lock right before it got there (linux install just died somewhere in install)
anyway i told him the BIOs had an option for onboard video but it was seperate from the other video option that only had AGP and PCI, the motherboard has no AGP slot, and that I wasnt going to pick AGP for fear of not being able to undo that option, he told me the AGP option was not the onboard video anyway
I told him its been on PCI, and that i tried it with onboard on and off, but then said to unplug the video card and try it and sure enough it worked, i suppose the mobo knows to use onboard video if its unplugged
i was suprised HP answered my questions to a computer so well out of date and warranty, figured I'd share this bit of info sicne when I was searching again for some stuff on google my own post came up

Anyway Win2000 installed and it seems Linux is working good too