Isn't this a common problem in VIA boards? I read back in the old anandtech review that KT333 boards have problem maintaining stability if more than 2 memory slots are filled.
Here is a link (for ABIT KX333)
http://www.anandtech.com/mb/showdoc.html?i=1636&p=4
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The KX7-333 does have four DIMM slots, but stability with all four banks populated isn't guaranteed. In fact, we could only run the board reliably with two memory banks populated at DDR333 speeds with the timings set to automatically adjust according to the modules' SPD logic. In some cases, we could get three modules to work relatively well but overall you shouldn't count on using more than two sticks of memory in the KX7-333 without sacrificing stability
Another (Epox 8A3K+)
http://www.anandtech.com/mb/showdoc.html?i=1636&p=9
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The board features a full 6 PCI slots and a single AGP 4X slot not to mention three DIMM slots. Like all too many of these boards with more than 2 memory slots, stability isn't guaranteed with all banks populated. You will be able to use a maximum of two DDR333 modules without sacrificing stability. We also ran into other issues with 3 DIMMs installed such as incorrectly reporting the memory size at POST.
Well you get the idea. Try reading through the review and check whether your mb has the same problem.